By Evan Andy has summed up the last few days in great detail, so I will skip straight to my take from the last few days. Since Andy is trying to get in more analysis, I’ll throw in my two bits in the form of a list of revelations I’ve had over the last few days.
It’s hard to gauge the way laobaixing think of you from just their initial reaction. The only problem with objectivity in interpretation of foreign cultures is that you can never be sure how the locals would act if you weren’t around – sort of like Schrodinger’s cat. All I can do is be myself and hope that eventually they’ll toss me a bone (glimpse into their real lives) eventually. I try to wave to, nod at, or greet everybody we pass out drying grain or working the land or riding by on farm implements/scooters every day, and every one of them gives a different reaction. Most just stare blankly in stupefication, and some wave back elatedly with huge smiles from under their work loads. Several scream “hallo” or “very good” or “nice to meet you,” and some respond in Chinese (fewer than you’d think). Some, on the other hand, give us what I call the ‘gorilla reaction,’ or a face that combines surprise, confusion, and dread that I think I could make only if I saw a flock of gorillas running down the road throwing poop at people. Now beyond just humor, it’s important to our cause to figure out how to read LBX’es, because we are trying to stay with as many of them as possible. Two nights ago when we went into a town and tried our new tact of directly asking people if we could stay with them, they all balked and pointed at hotels or empty buildings. However, everybody we talk to for over 5 minutes tends to go through the cycle of staid remoteness – cautious curiosity – friendship – jubilation – inviting us to tea, dinner, whatever. Hopefully in the future we’ll be able to start more conversations with LBXes around afternoon time so we can take out two birds with the one stone. Then I can put in some real thoughts. (more…)

Et nous réussissons à nous faire inviter par un lbx! Enfin! C’est ce que nous attendions depuis deux semaines! Il devance presque nos remerciement en répétant un nombre illimité de fois “不用客气!不用客气!” (« Je vous en prie! Je vous en prie!») et “我很喜欢你们”(« Je vous aime beaucoup », en parlant des étrangers). En nous offrant quelques pommes et une montagne de cacahouètes entreposées sur le toit de la maison, il nous explique qu’il cultive un peu et fait du commerce en vendant des trucs à droite à gauche. Des explications un peu vagues. Sans doute ne fait-il que revendre ce qu’il cultive: du maïs et des cacahouètes. Sa vie est dure. Le travail est fatigant et il peine à joindre les deux bouts, même si les conditions de vie sont bien meilleures que lorsqu’il était jeune. Au moins aujourd’hui, dit-il, il ne se pose pas la question de savoir s’il aura suffisamment à manger le soir. Il est marié et a une petite fille de 10 ans. Sa femme, au sourire charmant qui laisse paraître deux couronnes dans le fond, nous prépare des nouilles à la saucisse, accompagnées de petites tomates-olives. L’hôte est si gentil qu’il est difficile de refuser quoi que ce soit.

